Strong Men Strong Marriages

Why "Being One" In Marriage Is A Problem

April 27, 2021 Mike Frazier, MD Episode 55
Strong Men Strong Marriages
Why "Being One" In Marriage Is A Problem
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Strong Men Strong Marriages
Why "Being One" In Marriage Is A Problem
Apr 27, 2021 Episode 55
Mike Frazier, MD

The movies, church, and society teach us to “be one” in a marriage.


But, we often misunderstand what this means.


We become TOO blended with our wife.


We become overly focused on “making her happy” and winning her approval (attention, appreciation and affection).


A good marriage is like a good meal.


Pasta and shrimp taste GREAT together.


But if you put them in a blender and drink it…


It doesn’t taste that great any more.


Learn how to be TOGETHER in your marriage WITHOUT becoming overly blended in this episode.


Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here


Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/jprZYcdipl4


Summary:

-We become overly blended when our wife’s opinion becomes TOO important to us

-Or when we seek TOO much for her approval (attention, appreciation, affection, sex)

-Instead, we need to be our OWN man

-AND learn how to work together with our wife

-In ways that work for BOTH of us

-You need the skills of confidence, communication, collaboration and intimacy to make that happen

-You can learn ALL those skills in Marriage Basic Training


CLICK HERE to join Marriage Basic Training.


It CLOSES Friday, April 30th at Midnight pacific time.


I’ll see you there!


Dr. Mike


P.S. Marriage Basic Training will teach you EXACTLY how to have the confidence you need to have difficult conversations with your wife. You’ll learn how to get to where you are BOTH winning in money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, household work, and more. And I stand by my course. Do the work. If it’s not worth your investment, you get your investment back. CLICK HERE to join now.

Show Notes

The movies, church, and society teach us to “be one” in a marriage.


But, we often misunderstand what this means.


We become TOO blended with our wife.


We become overly focused on “making her happy” and winning her approval (attention, appreciation and affection).


A good marriage is like a good meal.


Pasta and shrimp taste GREAT together.


But if you put them in a blender and drink it…


It doesn’t taste that great any more.


Learn how to be TOGETHER in your marriage WITHOUT becoming overly blended in this episode.


Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here


Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/jprZYcdipl4


Summary:

-We become overly blended when our wife’s opinion becomes TOO important to us

-Or when we seek TOO much for her approval (attention, appreciation, affection, sex)

-Instead, we need to be our OWN man

-AND learn how to work together with our wife

-In ways that work for BOTH of us

-You need the skills of confidence, communication, collaboration and intimacy to make that happen

-You can learn ALL those skills in Marriage Basic Training


CLICK HERE to join Marriage Basic Training.


It CLOSES Friday, April 30th at Midnight pacific time.


I’ll see you there!


Dr. Mike


P.S. Marriage Basic Training will teach you EXACTLY how to have the confidence you need to have difficult conversations with your wife. You’ll learn how to get to where you are BOTH winning in money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, household work, and more. And I stand by my course. Do the work. If it’s not worth your investment, you get your investment back. CLICK HERE to join now.