Strong Men Strong Marriages
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
Strong Men Strong Marriages
Our Marriage Is Good... Except For The Sex
Last week I attended a writing workshop through Scribe.
It was an amazing experience, but one of the most meaningful parts was getting clear on who I can help best.
In this episode, I describe clearly the type of person with the type of problem I feel especially able to help with.
I call him John.
John is a professionally successful Christian man who has a good marriage… except for the sex.
But, if you dig a little deeper, you’ll see that it’s really a deep sense of feeling trapped.
He tries so hard to make his wife happy, but it never translates to sex.
He feels he’s getting all the responsibilities of marriage with none of the benefits.
He wants to be committed to his wife sexually, but since she won’t have sex with him, what is he supposed to do?
He sometimes turns to pornography, then feels guilty about this. He sometimes thinks he’d be better off with another woman (like maybe women at work or even at church who admire him), then feels guilty about those thoughts.
He’s asked his wife to have more sex, but it never results in lasting change.
What is John to do? He wants to be a good man, and he feels like he’s being a good husband. Checking off the boxes of what should result in him having a great marriage and a great sex life.
But it’s not working. And leaving his wife or turning to pornography or another women don’t line up with his Christian values.
He feels extremely frustrated and trapped.
Learn more about John’s struggles in today’s episode.
If John sounds like you, then I can help you.
If he doesn’t, you’re probably better off finding another coach who can help you better.
Watch on YouTube here.
Fortunately, there’s a way out of this.
You can feel free and have an amazing sex life with your wife.
That’s what I help men do and we’ll talk more details in the next episode.
Dr. Mike
P.S. In the next few weeks, I’ll be launching the updated version of The Strong Man System. It’s going to be more fun and better than ever.
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