Strong Men Strong Marriages

Our Marriage Is Good... Except For The Sex

January 25, 2022 Mike Frazier, MD Episode 94
Strong Men Strong Marriages
Our Marriage Is Good... Except For The Sex
Show Notes

Last week I attended a writing workshop through Scribe

It was an amazing experience, but one of the most meaningful parts was getting clear on who I can help best.

In this episode, I describe clearly the type of person with the type of problem I feel especially able to help with.

I call him John.

John is a professionally successful Christian man who has a good marriage… except for the sex.

But, if you dig a little deeper, you’ll see that it’s really a deep sense of feeling trapped.

He tries so hard to make his wife happy, but it never translates to sex.

He feels he’s getting all the responsibilities of marriage with none of the benefits.

He wants to be committed to his wife sexually, but since she won’t have sex with him, what is he supposed to do?

He sometimes turns to pornography, then feels guilty about this. He sometimes thinks he’d be better off with another woman (like maybe women at work or even at church who admire him), then feels guilty about those thoughts.

He’s asked his wife to have more sex, but it never results in lasting change.

What is John to do? He wants to be a good man, and he feels like he’s being a good husband. Checking off the boxes of what should result in him having a great marriage and a great sex life.

But it’s not working. And leaving his wife or turning to pornography or another women don’t line up with his Christian values.

He feels extremely frustrated and trapped.

Learn more about John’s struggles in today’s episode.

If John sounds like you, then I can help you.

If he doesn’t, you’re probably better off finding another coach who can help you better.

Watch on YouTube here. 

Fortunately, there’s a way out of this. 

You can feel free and have an amazing sex life with your wife.

That’s what I help men do and we’ll talk more details in the next episode.

Dr. Mike

P.S. In the next few weeks, I’ll be launching the updated version of The Strong Man System. It’s going to be more fun and better than ever.

P.S. Want more intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now.