If you’ve been following along with the intimacy intensive series, you’ve learned that women are attracted to strength.
So, you may be wanting to build your strength.
But, that strength needs to be built on a solid foundation.
If you want to build strength mainly so that you can save your marriage or have more sex with your wife…
You are built on a sandy foundation.
At its core, this reason is still manipulative and controlling. You’re changing to change her behavior.
And, therefore, building strength for her is very unattractive.
And, if your wife has already separated from you, she knows that if she comes back, you’ll be back to your old self. Because your motivation to change (getting her back) is now gone.
On the other hand, deciding to build strengths because that’s who you want to be as a man is strong and attractive.
You have control over this outcome, where you have no control over the other (your wife’s decisions).
And, if you anchor who you want to be as a man and husband to who God wants you to be, you are building on the ultimate strong foundation (in my Chrisitan beliefs and opinion).
You feel good about your decision and who you are, and that feels strong and is attractive.
Learn more about building strength and making changes for attractive vs unattractive reasons in today’s episode.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. In the next few weeks, I’ll be launching the updated version of The Strong Man System. It’s going to be the best and most effective version yet.
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