Strong Men Strong Marriages
Traditional marriage counseling and marriage coaching will tell you to work on communication. A pastor might tell you to sacrifice more and forget about yourself.
But, what actually works when it comes to creating a strong, passionate marriage? One that's full of love, connection and intimacy?
Find out with us on our podcast, Strong Men Strong Marriages.
Hosted by psychiatrist and marriage coach Mike Frazier, MD
Strong Men Strong Marriages
How To Reverse The Hurt In Your Marriage
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A few weeks back we talked about the Invalidation Triple Threat.
That’s when you tell your wife:
-She’s wrong for what she’s thinking
-She’s wrong for what she’s feeling
-You’re right
This causes her to close her heart… and body… off from you.
We all do this sometimes, and luckily we can reverse it by reversing those 3 steps:
-Tell her how you were wrong for responding the way you did
-Understand how she could feel that way
-Understand how she could think that way
This helps her feel safe and open her mind, heart and body more to you.
Watch on YouTube here.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MytcPIKG2xk
Dr. Mike
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