Strong Men Strong Marriages

Who Is In Charge Of Your Happiness?

Mike Frazier, MD Episode 373

I had a tougher day today.


Wishing that my wife would give me more attention, appreciation, affection and sex.


Feeling like I couldn’t be happy until she did.


Then, God reminded me: Who is in charge of your happiness?


If I can only be happy if the people around me are acting certain ways…


I’m giving my power over to them.


Does that mean I just wait patiently forever and not get anything I want?


No. 


It means I ask for what I want, work with my wife and others to find win-wins, and set boundaries of what I will and will not do if my requests are not met.


That’s where wisdom, prayer, and coaching come in.


To help you learn to do that.



Dr. Mike

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