Strong Men Strong Marriages
Traditional marriage counseling and marriage coaching will tell you to work on communication. A pastor might tell you to sacrifice more and forget about yourself.
But, what actually works when it comes to creating a strong, passionate marriage? One that's full of love, connection and intimacy?
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Hosted by psychiatrist and marriage coach Mike Frazier, MD
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Perfection Or Rejection And Unfair Generosity
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In doing my inner child work, I realized that from about age 8 I took this message:
Be perfect or be rejected.
By God, by family, by church, by friends.
Sure, you could repent and make things right…
But you were always one sin or misstep away from being rejected.
It’s not a fun way to live.
As I’ve come to know God better, I believe he is unfairly generous with us.
He’s looking for us to come to Him and know Him…
Not waiting for us to make a mistake to punish us.
So, I’ve decided to trust that unfair generosity…
And try to give it to myself, my wife, my kids, my friends and the people I interact with.
It feels very freeing and powerful.
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Dr. Mike
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