What does your dream marriage look like?
For most of the guys I talk to, it involves being great friends, aligned on big goals, supporting each other, having fun together, and enjoying a great sex life.
Being connected spiritually, mentally, emotionally and sexually connected.
But, you’re probably not spending much time envisioning that marriage.
Probably because you think it’s just not possible.
That with your situation, with your wife, it’s just not going to happen.
So you start escaping into pornography or fantasizing about other women…
Or turning to food or work or alcohol or social media to numb your disappointment.
What I’ve learned recently is the power of our dreams.
That sounds cheesy, but there’s actual research behind it.
Right now you’re picturing (dreaming of) a negative future for yourself.
So subconsciously, you’re CREATING that negative future.
Instead, you need to actively create the future relationship that you want in your mind…
And spend time there each day.
Then ask yourself…
What kind of husband do I need to be to create that kind of relationship?
Then picture yourself becoming that man.
That vision will pull you towards it, helping you become the man that creates an amazing marriage.
Learn more about these ideas in today’s episode.
Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. If you’re ready to build yourself into the man that God wants you to be…
So you can have incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…
And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…
CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.
You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to working with you!