This is one of the most common problems I see in the men I work with.
It can be VERY frustrating to feel like you’re changing, but have your wife keep bringing up your past mistakes.
What you have to understand about this is that your wife is HURT.
And YOU are the one who hurt her.
And over time, the wound you have caused her has become infected.
And so, when you tell her to “get over it” or “move forward” or “trust you,” you’re basically trying to put a band aid on an infection.
Instead, you need to:
Learn about these principles in today’s episode:
Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages.
Watch on YouTube here.
P.S. To make permanent changes, you need to:
These are the three steps we follow in my program, Love, Intimacy and Legacy.
If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…
You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!
P.P.S. Weekly wins from men in the program (anonymized for privacy):
-Mental, emotional and sexual infidelity… even after infidelity
-Fun at in-laws, where before it was always a pain
-Turning old conflicts about parenting into more connection
-Turning a bad mood from work into a good mood and enjoying a great evening with family