Strong Men Strong Marriages
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
Strong Men Strong Marriages
My Wife Says "Stop Making It About You." What Should I Do?
You’re focused on becoming a better husband and father. You’re serving your wife, trying to listen, trying to do the five love languages… all of it.
But, your wife still says things like “You’re making it about you.”
This can be very frustrating, because you feel like your soul focus is on her!
But, here’s the thing.
If your goal is to be a better husband… that still is about you.
What you want to try instead is to spend time each day getting into your wife’s shoes at a deep level.
In particular, you want to try to understand her suffering. You want to have compassion.
That’s what compassion is. To “suffer with.”
As you do this, you will completely stop making it about you.
Because if you are genuinely trying to experience the world as she experiences it…
You have removed yourself from the equation. It’s not about you at all.
I realized I hadn’t been doing this very well. My wife, however, does it often. And she has great relationships with the kids and her friends because of it.
As I’ve implemented a daily practice of getting into her shoes and the kids shoes, and in particular trying to understand and feel their suffering…
I’ve felt much closer to them and had inspiration on how to serve them better.
It’s been very powerful and I wanted to share that practice with you today.
It can’t be “about you” if you are really in your wife’s shoes (or your kids’ shoes).
Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
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