Strong Men Strong Marriages
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
Strong Men Strong Marriages
How To Tell Your Wife About Your Affair, Pornography, Spying, Lying Or Other Past Mistakes
If you’ve done something you know is wrong in your marriage, you might be thinking “I shouldn’t tell her because it might hurt her.”
And it’s true. Telling her the truth will hurt her.
But, continuing a lie will 100% keep you from having a great marriage.
Great marriages are built on trust, communication and intimacy.
Keeping a big, hurtful secret keeps trust out of the equation.
It also limits communication, because you’re constantly on the lookout to make sure that your secret doesn’t come up. That limits mental and emotional intimacy.
And when there’s low trust and superficial communication, sexual intimacy suffers.
Telling the truth is hard. But there are some effective ways to do it.
Give your wife a “warning shot.” Let her know something hard is coming.
Tell her the whole truth.
Let her have her emotional response.
And manage your own thoughts and emotions well as she goes through her initial response and the grieving process as the weight of your mistakes “sinks in.”
Learn more in today’s episode.
Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
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